Steven Spielberg: My all-time favorite speech

Rosie the Riveter

Rosie the Riveter

I like teaching experiences. One of the best ways to teach is to speak. This speech by Steven Spielberg at the 2016 graduation ceremony at Stanford is my favorite speech ever. It even transcends the speech Steve Jobs presented at the same event. And that is saying a lot.

This blog generates no comments or guest posts. I do not know how to change that. If you watch the speech, and if you are inspired to share your impressions, I will welcome them.

 

Lunch with the homeless lady

Rosie the Riveter

Rosie the Riveter

On my drive home from photographing two friends who are celebrating their wedding engagement I noticed a woman working a median strip near my house.

Her cardboard sign announced her homeless condition.

The logistics of the intersection made it prudent to park, and to approach her on foot. I gave her my customary five-dollar offering.

A brief conversation convinced me that she was not stoned or crazy, and when I asked she told me she had not eaten. It was 3:30 p.m. I invited her to lunch, and she accepted.

We walked to a nearby restaurant that is a bit pricey for my tastes, but I was, hopefully, creating some karma. I need all the good karma I can get. She loved her milkshake. It was topped with whipped cream. She did not leave a drop of it.

She was consistently cheerful and optimistic during our conversation. One of her current goals is to buy her son a birthday cake. He likes chocolate. Anything chocolate. She has three children.

The only physical marker that she might be homeless was dirty fingernails. She also needed help from a good dentist.

The world is screwed up, and many of us work for the people who make it that way. We do it in a mad quest for personal safety. There is no safety in a screwed up world. Each of us, you and I, have to take a stand for kindness and justice.

Advocating kindness

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Artist TaylorJo, age 7

In spite of the fact that we are drowning in pain and conflict there are people who want to create more of both. Some of them live in Mississippi.

This morning a friend of mine posted on Facebook a clip of Ellen DeGeneres speaking out on the laws in Mississippi that penalize people based on their sexual orientation.

On Wednesday, the Senate voted 31-17 to pass House Bill 1523, which protects people, businesses, and religious organizations that refuse to service LGBT people if doing so violates their “sincerely held” religious beliefs.—New York Magazine

Another friend posted a Huffington Post article about the special problems bisexuals face, even among the gay and lesbian population.

A December 2015 study in the Journal of Bisexuality found that gays and lesbians had nearly identical prejudice against bisexuals as heterosexuals. But most bisexuals don’t need a study to affirm that fact, and failure to acknowledge biphobia from within and outside LGBT communities is extremely harmful.

I did not know there was Journal of Bisexuality. It is published four times a year.

In researching this theme I also discovered that Harvard has a project called Making Caring Common. It operates under the auspices of the university’s Graduate School of Education. Perhaps I have misjudged Harvard.

Too often, today’s culture sends young people messages that emphasize personal success rather than concern for others and the common good.—Harvard

Consider the bullying problems in our schools. Consider how many bosses bully employees. Look at our process for electing a new president, or commenting on a sitting president.

I think a deep commitment to kindness would change the world in ways we cannot imagine.

Your thoughts?

On taking a stand

Rosie the Riveter

Rosie the Riveter

This post connects to two videos on taking a stand. The stand in this case is honoring the right to express one’s sexual orientation, and the right of gays to marry.

Click this link to see the former mayor of San Diego recant his earlier stance to oppose gay marriage. I find it ironic that he knew his daughter was gay, and he still took a defensive position.

Click this link to read his Wikipedia profile: Jerry Sanders.

The Ellen DeGeneres link takes you to her conversation with John McCain in which they acknowledge their deep disagreement on the subject of gay marriage.

I think our collective wariness to take stands is a national crisis. It is more severe with men than with women. It’s worth watching these two brave people show us how it is done.

Honoring Dr. King

AngelTomorrow we pause, at least many of us do, to honor Martin Luther King, an amazing human being.

To add to your experience of this wonderful man, please consider reading his Letter from a Birmingham Jail. This link connects to an image of the typewritten letter. This one connects to a more readable version. I include two quotations in this post.

 

Moreover, I am cognizant of the interrelatedness of all communities and states. I cannot sit idly by in Atlanta and not be concerned about what happens in Birmingham. Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere. We are caught in an inescapable network of mutuality, tied in a single garment of destiny. Whatever affects one directly, affects all indirectly. Never again can we afford to live with the narrow, provincial “outside agitator” idea. Anyone who lives inside the United States can never be considered an outsider anywhere within its bounds.

It is profound. Please enjoy the experience of reading it.

Special reverence is in order, in my view, because he was assassinated.

We know through painful experience that freedom is never voluntarily given by the oppressor; it must be demanded by the oppressed.

I say amen to that.

Two books to save the world

img005The world is in bad shape. This is not due to a lack of wisdom, it is due to the poor distribution of wisdom. It is bottled up in a few places. In this post I name two of them.

An additional advantage in studying these two books is that they complement each other.

The main problem in the world is that most of us are trying to get something from other people, and we usually want to control them. Robert Greenleaf builds a compelling case that we improve our lives when we serve other people rather than trying to dominate them. He developed the phrase servant leadership to describe the values and way of living that he advocates in the book.

Discussion is almost like a ping-pong game, where people are batting the ideas back and forth and the object of the game is to win or to get points for yourself.—David Bohm

A book that connects with Greenleaf’s thinking is On Dialogue. David Bohm advocated listening in order to understand rather than listening in order to plan a counterattack. Listening to understand is a form of service to the other person. We can also discover aspects of our point of view that we may not have noticed. You might provoke me to disagree with you and I didn’t know I had an opinion on the subject. Dialogue reveals us.

One of the most helpful aspects of Greenleaf’s book is that he identifies the structural problems with churches, businesses, and universities. The problems are the same today as they were in the 1970s when he wrote the book. We are indeed slow learners. Bohm clarifies one of our common struggles when he explains incoherence: “Incoherence means that your intentions and your results do not agree.” That pretty much describes the state of the world.

Servant Leadership is not light reading, at least not for me. But if it enables us to save the world it is probably worth the effort.

A prayer for the world

Me and Lad

I think more people are hurting than at any other time in my life. It is painful to watch the news.

The mean spirit of politics is the worst I have seen.

The abrasiveness we witness brings out fear and defensiveness which makes the situation worse.

Let us practice kindness.

Why we need art

sunsetArt has the power, I believe, to save the world if we take the time to learn its ways and to create some of it ourselves.

People are growing more adamant in their anger and blame. They are becoming more dictatorial, and more sarcastic. Creating art brings our attention to values that are completely antithetical to these behaviors. Let’s consider how we must approach art if we are to create it.

The first thing that strikes me is that creating art begins with pondering. As a photographer I ponder what I see in an effort to be truly open to things, people, and situations. I cannot make a good photograph by imposing myself or my views.

The sunset photo is the result of paying attention. I simply noticed the scene and clicked the shutter. There is no room for conceit. Art is a humbling experience.

The sunset photo reminds me that I am a witness to a grand plan and a magnificent creation. I have photographed young people over a span of decades. That, too, is a humbling experience. It reminds me of the pace and rhythm of life. Many people are moving in a different direction.

Art reminds us of beauty, and it reminds us that we have much to learn about appreciating it. Noticing and admiring beauty increases our receptivity to it in ourselves, other people, and the environment.

Consider Mr. Reich’s observations on how attitudes are being manipulated.

Surveys show that most of Trump’s followers are non-college-educated whites whose incomes have plummeted and whose jobs are less secure than ever. They’re mad as hell, and see Trump as heroic because he is acting as if he has their interests at heart. Trump is directing their anger and anxiety against Latinos, blacks, Muslims, the major media, and the political establishment. It’s the formula demagogues have used through history.—Robert Reich

It is my experience that people in general are reluctant to explore beauty through photographs. People who develop their artistic sensitivity are relatively rare. That is one of the reasons I am so enthusiastic about encouraging people to explore their own artistic calling.

The silence from readers of this blog suggests to me that people are wary of speaking up about their own interests. We would do well to change that attitude and behavior.

Ryan DeFusco

Ryan DeFusco

A sort of enlightenment

Prayer dogI’ve always thought—now please recognize that I’m old—that enlightenment came to people of virtue. I no longer think that virtue means worthiness. I think virtue means honesty. People who want to be enlightened, I think, must face their fears with respect and wonder.

Having fears, I’ve always believed, was proof of unworthiness. There has been a shift in my perceptions recently. It has taken way too long. I now consider courage as the willingness to dance with fear. That willingness is different from despising it.

The performance by Neil Young, father and son by the same name, provides guidance to me on bowing down to reality. I have always, always wanted to dictate reality, and my entitlement to do so was some kind of performance virtue. That does not, I now realize, even exist.

If you have four minutes to watch their performance it might open you in the way it has opened me. Your thoughts, my silent readers?

 

A new level of weird

Jade and Wayne, two dear people from Tucson, are currently on the Greek island of Lesbos that accommodates, so to speak, a camp for Syrian refugees. They are taking photographs of the people there. I say so to speak because conditions in both Greek camps are primitive, crude, and hostile. They are better than dying, which is the price of not being there. I invite you to read what the BBC says about the camps.

These are the shocking conditions in which terrified refugees are forced to live on a Greek holiday island having fled some of the world’s most dangerous regions.

Thousands of Syrian, Iraqi and Afghan refugees have left the crumbled remains of their homes in their fractured countries behind them after fearing they could be killed.

Facebook provides a window of sorts into crises and the suffering they cause. This is especially the case when friends are attending the crisis and photographing it.

Add to this the self-righteous behavior of public figures who show their disdain for the Syrians.

More than a dozen US states have declared a ban on any Syrian refugees entering after one of the Paris terrorists appeared to be carrying a Syrian passport.

Thirteen states have put a halt on letting in people from the war-torn country following the attacks on Friday in the French capital.—Mirror

And we are the land of the free and the home of the brave?